New Years Resolution – Be Present
23 Jan 2012
Stefanie Lester Coslow is a native New Yorker currently residing in Chicago with her husband and two kids and teaches at CorePower Yoga throughout their Chicago locations. In a former life, she was an accountant at a TV Rep firm who studied Psychology at school, talk about yin & yang.
A yoga student and a friend are talking, the friend asks the yoga student what she wants for the holidays. The yoga student replies, “I don’t need gifts, I only want presence”, bah dum ump…..
Okay, so I borrowed that from a friend…. And I don’t normally set New Year’s resolutions, but I’ve been thinking about, for awhile now, and working on, being present in the moment. It first really occurred to me during my teacher training. While teaching I found that I was often very much in my own head, focusing so much on what came next and what I was going to say that I wasn’t observing or connecting with my students. Over time, and with experience, I have learned to be more observant, come out from inside my own head a bit more, and react to and teach to what I see.
It sounds so simple, right? But think about how much of our lives we spend inside our heads. We think about our to do lists, plan what we’re going to do or say next, mull over what just happened rather than stay present in the moment and enjoying the here & now, and often we miss out on truly connecting with the people we’re with.
So much of yoga is about being in the present moment, being present on your mat, and focusing on what’s going on in your body here & now.. Pranayama, or breath work, is a huge tool in helping to focus the mind in the present. So are the poses, or asanas of yoga. But clearly, and as is often the case, this can be applied to your life off the mat as well.
It’s a lifelong practice and something I will probably always have to remind myself of, but yoga has given me this awareness and has made me strive to be more present in my everyday life.
One of my favorite quotes, by Eleanor Roosevelt (who are we kidding here, I originally heard it from Kung Fu Panda): “Tomorrow is history, Yesterday is a mystery, Today is a gift…..that’s why it’s called the present.”
Namaste my friends…..
Stefanie
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